Who are your current most favorite people?

In the warmth of my inner circle, there exists no hierarchy. Each person holds a piece of my heart, not because they’ve earned it by competing, but because they are uniquely themselves. Favoritism, I’ve realized, is not just an injustice—it’s a distortion of what relationships are meant to be.

Every relationship I have is as distinct as the individuals who form it. Each bond carries its own rhythm, its own story, and its own irreplaceable depth. How could I possibly compare the laughter of one friend with the wisdom of another? Or weigh the tender support of a family member against the spirited encouragement of a mentor? To do so would cheapen the beauty of what we share.

I love all of them—not equally, because love is not a scale—but fully, in a way that embraces their unique place in my life. My heart does not work like a leaderboard; it is a tapestry where every thread is essential to its wholeness.

Favoritism, I argue, is a shallow game. It thrives on insecurity, breeding competition where there should only be connection. To pit the people I cherish against one another is not just immature—it’s a betrayal of the love I feel for each of them. What a waste it would be to let comparison pollute what should be pure and unmeasured.

To those in my circle who have ever doubted their place, let me be clear: You do not have to win my heart. You are already there. Not because you outshone someone else, but because you are you. That’s all you’ve ever needed to be.

Let love be the glue that binds us, not the wedge that divides us. Let us rise above the petty temptations of favoritism and instead honor the individuality that makes each relationship irreplaceable. When love is sincere, it leaves no room for competition—only gratitude for the gift of connection.